How to Use The Prim: A Step-by-Step Guide for Beginners
By Tabu | Intimacy essentials for our ever-changing bodies | Published: 2026-08-28
Category: How-to Guides
New to The Prim? This beginner-friendly guide walks you through setup, usage, cleaning, and tips to get the most out of your first sessions.
Welcome to your first steps with The Prim. Whether you've just unboxed it or are considering adding it to your collection, this guide will walk you through everything you need to know—from setup to cleaning—so you can feel confident and comfortable from the very first use.

The Prim is designed with your body in mind, offering a gentle yet effective experience. But like any new tool, a little guidance goes a long way. Below, we break down the process into simple steps, share practical tips, and answer common questions beginners often have.
Getting to Know The Prim
Before you start, take a moment to familiarize yourself with The Prim. It's a sleek, body-friendly device that fits comfortably in your hand. The controls are intuitive, but a quick read of the included manual can help you understand its features and settings.
The Prim is made from body-safe materials, which means it's gentle on your skin. It's also rechargeable, so you won't need to worry about replacing batteries. Just plug it in with the included charging cable (or a Spare Charging Cable if you need a backup) and let it power up before your first session.

- Charge The Prim fully before first use—this ensures you get the longest session time.
- Wash your hands and the device with mild soap and warm water before and after each use.
Step-by-Step: Your First Session
Start by finding a comfortable, private space where you won't be interrupted. Relaxation is key, so take a few deep breaths and let your body settle. Apply a small amount of Aureum Lubricant to the device and the area you'll be using it on—this enhances comfort and sensation.
Turn on The Prim using the control button. Begin with the lowest setting to let your body adjust. Slowly explore different angles and pressures to discover what feels best. There's no rush—take your time and listen to your body. As you become more comfortable, you can gradually increase the intensity.
- Use a water-based lubricant like Aureum Lubricant for the best glide and easy cleanup.
- If anything feels uncomfortable, stop and adjust the position or lower the setting.
Cleaning and Care
After each use, clean The Prim with warm water and a mild, unscented soap. Avoid submerging it completely if it's not fully waterproof—check the manual for specific instructions. Gently dry it with a soft cloth and store it in a cool, dry place.
Regular cleaning not only keeps The Prim hygienic but also extends its lifespan. Avoid using harsh chemicals or abrasive materials, as these can damage the surface. If you notice any wear and tear, consider replacing the device to ensure safe and effective use.
- Store The Prim in its original pouch or a dedicated storage bag to protect it from dust.
- Keep the charging cable dry and away from water to prevent damage.
Tips for Getting the Most Out of The Prim
To make every session enjoyable, try pairing The Prim with other products from your collection. For example, using Aureum Lubricant enhances glide, while exploring different settings can keep things exciting. Don't be afraid to experiment—your preferences are unique to you.
Also, remember that practice makes perfect. The more you use The Prim, the more you'll learn about what works for you. Keep an open mind and prioritize your comfort above all. If you're new to intimate wellness products, start slow and give yourself grace.
- Set the mood with soft lighting or music to enhance relaxation.
- If you're using The Prim with a partner, communicate openly about what feels good.
Using The Prim is all about exploration and self-care. With these steps, you'll quickly feel at ease and discover the benefits it offers. Remember to clean it regularly, use lubricant for comfort, and always listen to your body. Enjoy the journey!



